As all those who read this blog may seem to know, i have just gotten out of a recent (unrequited) heart ache. *ehem* Mr. Shoes *ehem*.
It has been hard, but yes, I have to finally admit that we were just not meant to be.
Life has been pretty normal after that.
During those rough times, i have come close with another guy officemate who is not office based. Everytime he's in the office, we are constantly seen together, hanging out *ehem* yosi break *ehem*. Having been from the same school in college moreover, being of the same batch and having a number of things in common, we sort of clicked.
Just recently, we were both included to our company trip in Aklan, re, Ati-atihan. There, we were seen together, well, sort of, all the time. We were even teased. Neither of us minded because, well, there's nothing to be mindful about.
Then came this news.
Apparently, our HR Manager talked with this guy telling him to be cautious around me? I really have no idea what the exact words are but the gist is that he should distance himself around me. It was in her fear (HR Manager) that something like what I experienced with Mr. Shoes would happen again.
** BOOM **
I wave of confusion came over me.
First thought: "Was it necessary?" I think not. It was waaaay overboard.
Okay, maybe I do understand the intention of me not getting hurt again. But still, how the situation was handled... it's just not right.
Then again, really, there's nothing to "us". Though I may admit that I kind of like the way he sings, but still, uhm... nope. The guy also has his girlfriend.
Would you think I would allow myself to get hurt the same way I was hurt before? I think not. It was too painful then, and I don't think I'll ever want to go through the same shit again.
I just think, it's kind of shameful to the guy who (i think) has no intentions towards me.
He wasn't awkward though when we met again after the incident, but I felt a little change in him.
God, I hope he'll just shrug the issue off. And God I hope we're still friends.
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